If you’ve found yourself in a situation where you are saying, “I like this girl, but she has a boyfriend” here are 4 mistakes that you need to avoid…
1. Not seeing the truth
So, let me ask you this question, “If you were able to attract 3 other beautiful girls and they all liked you, would you be trying to get this girl to leave her boyfriend?”
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If you had 3 hot girls interested in you and shared a great connection with each of them, you would just leave this other girl alone to enjoy her relationship with her boyfriend, even if she is unhappy.
I mentioned the part about her being “unhappy” because most of guys who are in the position where they are saying, “I like this girl, but she has a boyfriend” also say that one of the main reasons he wants her is that he knows he could treat her better and make her happier.
The thing is, you probably are a really good guy and you probably would treat her nicer than her boyfriend.
However, even though the girl looks unhappy because the guy is a bad boy or a jerk, it doesn’t mean that she’s going to want to leave him for a sweet nice guy who is going to treat her like a princess.
Why? Most of the guys who want to save a girl from a bad boyfriend are the type who think that the secret to success with women is to be really nice to a woman and treat her like a princess all the time.
There’s nothing wrong with treating a woman nicely and making her feel special, but niceness cannot be the only basis of her attraction and interest in you.
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Why? Women don’t feel sexually turned on, aroused and excited to be with a guy simply based on him being nice to her.