5 rules of how to be a great mistress

Although traditional and conservative, “prim and proper”, on the exterior, there’s a deep, dark secret. I’m a Mistress – and I have been with various men for many years. The question is, should you sleep with a married man? If you’ve made the decision to enter the discrete world of being a Mistress, there are ground <…>

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This article was published on December 4th, 2014

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Although traditional and conservative, “prim and proper”, on the exterior, there’s a deep, dark secret.

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I’m a Mistress – and I have been with various men for many years.

The question is, should you sleep with a married man?

If you’ve made the decision to enter the discrete world of being a Mistress, there are ground rules and you must follow. Let’s call them the ‘5 rules of how to be a great mistress’.

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Keep the Mystery Alive. Let’s be honest, the man, or woman, is with you because you provide certain things his wife or her husband doesn’t. Great sex. Mystery. Excitement. Keep that mystery alive throughout your relationship. From sexy underwear and lingerie to conversing about topics that don’t have to do with his family, keep your relationship light and with spark.No Threats. If he’s doing this with you, chances are he trusts you more than anyone, even his wife. Never, ever threaten to tell anyone, especially his friends or family. The moment you break that trust is the moment your Mistress Card will be revoked.Protect Your Heart. As much as you try, part of you will likely fall for your Mister. As much as you can, protect your heart, and don’t fall in love.Be Realistic. Even if he does leave his wife for you, only 5% of these relationships end up being successful. Be realistic. Being a Mistress is an arrangement, often unspoken, that most often has an end date. Be realistic in the purpose of this relationship.Be Smart. Likely the most important, be smart. No photos together, and no saved texted messages. Set rules. Whether it’s no texting or calling after 5PM or only reaching out unless he initiates, be smart. You never know who’s looking through his phone.

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From keeping the mystery alive to being smart, and realistic, these five rules of how to be a great mistress are must-follows.

Are you ready to take the leap?

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